Told him I didn't love him anymore.

After fighting hard and for his attention for 3 years on and off.. i finally got tired of the cycle and broke it off.. I told him I didn't love him anymore.. it might seem harsh but I think I woke up. And realized this wasn't love.. maybe telling him that will help me move on. Before saying this during the breakup, i told him I loved him a couple times and he never said it back. I miss the good times, but not the moments crying in my bed wondering what's going on.