I dream of having a bully

I truly just want to find a bully! I’m 34m I have always been in charge most of my life no one really ever messed with me. But my ultimate fantasy is finding a man/woman that treats me like shit. Make fun of me makes me do shit I don’t want to do (not just send pics of my wife constantly).
Just want someone to take control of me and make me feel small and pathetic. When my wife teases me or talks shit to me it makes me so horny but she’s naturally not dominant like that. Where can I go to find someone like this!? I just want to be someone’s submissive bitch that if I talk back they put me on my place and show me who the real boss is.