Is there even any people that want to date trans people?
It's no hate or sth, nor is it meant as being transphobic, I'm just very hopeless and depressed.
I've noticed a tendency of people being incredibly disappointed and stop dating people once they find out they're trans. ... It just feels hopeless because so many people just don't. Total ropefuel at this point. I just want a warm loving relationship with silly nights of cuddling, eating, cooking together and watching movies or sth, talk about anything and everything, be cute and romantic like in the old romance novels, do silly little gifts to each other and simply have each other's back. But I know no one I would feel attracted to would even consider me, all because I'm trans. I've had so many friendzones just because of that. And I'm not that unattractive, I'm maybe mid, just - not cis. Total ropefuel. Seriously. And then you see highschool sweethearts all around you, people getting together during uni etc. I just can't fathom this, I yearn for it but it'll never come. Are there even people out there wanting to date us? Is it too much to ask for to be happy and stop feeling this utter loneliness eating me alive?
Posted Jul 9, 2026, 7:43 PM UTC