Just need a place to vent😣  
I’m honestly so tired of dating men who refuse to make my life easier.  
Yesterday I told my boyfriend I was bored, and instead of planning an entire evening for us he had the audacity to ask, “What do you want to do?”  
Why am I doing the thinking? If I knew what I wanted to do, I would’ve already been doing it.  
Then he asked if I wanted to pick the restaurant. Again…why is this suddenly my responsibility?  
I just feel like I’m carrying the entire relationship because apparently I’m expected to make all the decisions now. Every time he asks for my opinion it’s like he’s outsourcing emotional labor onto me.  
And before anyone asks, no, I’m not going to communicate this to him because if I have to explain it, it defeats the purpose. I shouldn’t have to tell a grown man that he should already know exactly what I want at all times.  
I’m just exhausted from always having to exist around people who can’t think for themselves. Is that really too much to ask?   
You’d think these men could think for themselves and make decisions right?  
But as per usual I have to decide everything…   
Anyways butter chicken masala…

Why do men always expect me to do all the work in a relationship?