36 [M4F] #New England- Genuinely looking for my person this time around
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That's right guys. No more games. No more hesitation. I'm genuinely searching for my next and hopefully final partner in crime. I've had one in person affair that happened so organically that it's been leading me to chase after that feeling for a while now.
My marriage has turned to a complete mess and I feel like I've been completely stripped of who I once was. I still have fun and live my life, but when I come home for the day, I don't feel like anything will ever change. My wife's a great person and we get along but that spark is gone and we have no interest in spending any time together. There's no effort to work on anything which has led me here.
Who would I like to meet? Preferably a married woman in the same type of situation as me. Stuck and looking for a permanent distraction. I'd love for you to be open and honest and looking for long term. Location doesn't matter as long as you're in the US and willing to match 50/50 travel. Obviously I'd love for you to be as close as possible, but you never know where your person can come from!
I don't usually have a type, but I do like cute bubbly open minded girls who know what they want. Someone who is as vulnerable and guarded as me but willing to open up for the right person. Thats what makes something like this so special. To share and confide in all the things that brought us here. Someone I can enjoy my time with and who doesn't take life too seriously.
About me. I'm 5'11, caucasian, glasses, dark shaggy hair and have what you'd call a dad bod. I'm active and love being outside walking, golfing and just taking rides for fun. I'm a musician and dress the part. Been playing and writing music forever. I consider myself an elder emo if that's something you fancy.
Hoping I covered everything needed for you to make the decision to message me. Anything else you'd like to know, just ask me in the chat. Looking forward to meeting you.
Posted Jul 9, 2026, 7:45 PM UTC