Unpopular Corporate decision
So this is a question rather a decision i want to take. I know it can sound really weird but I am really struggling with it. So basically My team has a manager who got married recently and the marriage took place in Hyderabad and I stay in a complete different city. My team members are mostly from hyd and BLR. My relationship with my manager and team members is not that good because obviously I don't use oil. So basically this team mentally harressed me to a different level that I was in complete dipression last year. To cut short this fellow got married, I didn't even got this invitation not even online. Not a text from him I know he also knows very well that I won't attend as I stay very far at a different city still "corporate etiquettes u know". I even got to know that he is getting married in one of our morning calls when another manager from my team was discussing that who all from hyd and BLR team will attend his wedding and will be on leave. So basically a person from my team is directly texting me to send 500rs because they all went ( 7-8people from our team who lives in hyd and BLR) to this marriage party. Now my question is not able that 500rs, because that's too petty to be discussed, but my question is should I actually give? I was not even invited, not even once I got any support from this fellow. Basically I don't like my team at all and looking for a career change as well. I don't keep any person relationships with any one in my team because has been doing it since I joined here and realised that they don't deserve it.
Please answer my question and clear my doubts please.
Posted Jul 9, 2026, 7:45 PM UTC