34M - Bicurious and Looking to Explore With Patient Dom

I’m a pretty average guy, but grew up very conservative and never let myself explore a gay or submissive side of myself. I’m trying to be more honest with myself, and really let myself try to explore my being a sub with the right kind of guy.

My situation means this would have to stay online, and I would hope that we’re able to be reasonable adults who don’t expect to be in contact 24/7 because we still have real lives.

I’m not looking to be someone’s bitch or anything overnight. And don’t want someone to just demand nudes.

I want someone who will really help me find ways to submit and let me know that I’m pleasing them. I’m open to trying most things at least once, and love the idea of giving up control of underwear or clothing, having regular check-ins and tasks, even listening to hypnosis files or other things aren’t off the table. I love dirty talk and sexting, but don’t really have any experience with anything in person.

I don’t want anything to involve others without consent, and don’t want anything illegal that would expose me or be too extreme.

Just looking for another guy to maybe chat with, who can then be reasonable and dominant with me to help us both get off.

Hope to hear from you soon.