Hypersexuality isn’t about just being horny

It isn't just having a high sex drive and I am so tired of people acting like it actually is. I'm sick of people (usually men) acting like having a hypersexual girlfriend would be an exciting and good thing, as if she'd just match their freak in horny times. Hypersexuality is a horrible and debilitating experience. It's the experience of not being horny physically or having fucked so much you are shaking with physical pain and yet you HAVE to have more. It is constantly wanting to be dommed, put in your place, sexualised, drooled over even at the cost of other aspects of your life. Hypersexuality has made me do too many things I regretted. I've ended up with horrific illness and infection that put me on antibiotics due to hypersexuality. At times in my life I have been completely unable to function due to my hypersexuality. No, it is not cute or desirable to have a HS girlfriend. Thats not to say that HS girls cant have amazing relationships cuz of course they can, l adore my boyfriend and he is incredible at dealing with my bullshit, but the fetishisation of HS women needs to fucking stop oh my god