[M4F] Hypothetically, you walk in on your boyfriend or husband trying to fit a foot long dildo into his ass. How do you react?

Hey there, going to put this out into the ether. I'm looking for an 18+ woman on this subreddit who either has experience with men using toys on themselves or fantasises about it.

I'm looking to either chat about the idea of men taking big, long dildos, or roleplay one for a scene that centers around that as a starting point. How do you react to finding them in such a compromising situation? Do you get mad, do you encourage them? Do you even want to help them go further and try a real cock? I would love to play this out and see where it takes us.