i want to get nexplanon/implanon but my family is very conservative.

problem/goal: i want to get nexplanon/implanon but my family is very conservative.

context: hi, im 19 and me and my bf are sexually active. i want to get the birth control implant para di na talaga ako magka anxiety after having sex but how do i talk to my mom about this?

alam ko kasi na malala ung bruising after getting the implant so instead of hiding this sa mom ko (we have a separate house from the rest of our family) i want to tell her nalang na i got the implant.

but ung mom ko maaga siyang nabuntis and when she knew na i was having sex with my bf she's very disappointed and scared na baka mangyari saakin ung nangyari sakaniya kaya this is a sensitive topic to her. Buong family ko naman sobrang conservative lalo na when it comes to sex.

i don't think kasi na sapat lng ung condom as protection. hahaha i really dont want kids tlaga but me and my partner can't abstain. we use calendar method + condom + pull out but i want to be extra safer 😭😭😭

to women that has the birth control implant pls share your experiences, i really want to get it for extra protection sa unwanted pregnancy.

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