Trying to get the wife to love sleeves

My wife and I (33m) (32f) have been married for a couple years, and shes a little more on the reserved side of sexuality. we still have a great sex life but could be very vanilla (no foreplay, never used toys, basically just right to sex) but still very good nonetheless. I love my wife and I want her to feel the best shes ever felt sexually. she doesn’t have much experience and is pretty tight still even after giving birth a little over a year ago. when I brought up trying a sleeve she was definitely not up for it at first. I’d give some time and try to explain it might’ve fun and adventurous to try with each other. she was willing to try it. I first ordered the happy wife open sleeve small (I’m 5 or so length, 4.5 girth) the girth took me to about 6.5 😲. the first time we tried it I very carefully slid it in after lubing and she seemed to enjoy it an was making some decent sounds but had to go very slow and couldn’t go all the way in, maybe a few inches or so. Afterward, she just said she felt very full and she said she would never ask for it and that she just prefers my own dick but said I didn’t have to get rid of it lol. I myself wasn’t too excited with the happy wife, it’s ok but not a huge fan of the open sleeve concept but it’s not a terrible product.

this was a couple weeks ago. I finally stumble on Blissful Creations. having tried happy wife 3 times now and not getting a huge reaction from the wife, I’m perusing BC website. I order the Mailman 6” and am hoping this can change things forever. I’m really looking to making my wife a believer and a big cummer! I have yet to experience her having an orgasm and am really trying to open her up to all this and possibly see if she has a slutty SQ side!

Can anybody share any advice with someone like my wife? any experience just starting out with BC sleeves like the mailman 6? any advice in general, would to hear feedback. thank you!