Traci vs Birdman (Toni Braxton husband)

I don’t what the hell Traci issue was in this scene. She had an attitude when she sat down at the table for whatever reason. Now I don’t know if I’m bias or what but I have 4 brothers, so I’m not in the business of telling men how they need to be for their women especially when the women they dealt with have been okay with their personality thus far. However Traci had no right to tell birdman how to be towards his woman (Toni). Saying he needs to be softer and it’s okay to be soft. I was confused as to why she was tryna give birdman advice when her husband can’t even keep his dick in his pants. I think she was jealous that Toni was getting spoiled while Traci got nothing but a son who wanted to raise a family with his wife (Olivia) while living in her home 🤷🏾‍♀️ Toni didn’t mind Birdman being a hard thug all the time, so why did Traci have such an issue with it ? Are you trying to teach him how to be your man or be Toni’s ? Cause Toni didn’t have an issue with his demeanor so I don’t get why Traci was so mad. Also keep in mind, Birdman has a thuggish image being a a rap mogul so maybe he didn’t feel comfortable showing that soft side of himself on camera, which is valid.