49 [F4M] #Oregon Sweet & sassy princess seeking deep connection for FLR

Hello and welcome!

Before we get into it, here's some preamble…

I am not in Portland.

I'm poly and married, plus mother to a teenager. I'm looking for a real connection, not a fwb or kink only. If any of those are deal breakers, thanks for looking and good luck.

I've been going through a revision of myself recently and have put a lot of thought into what I want in a partner and relationship.

I'm seeking a long-term Female Led Relationship with a kinky dynamic. I'm experienced in BDSM but new to the world of FLR and Femdom.

Who I'm looking for…

You must be local and available for in person dates, but open to starting online.

I'm open to different body types, but I'm most attracted to masculine cis men at least 35 years old.

It's okay if you have another partner (ENM and not cheating) and a robust friend group (in fact, I prefer it), but I need to be high on your list of priorities.

I prefer KTP or close to it, but parallel is fine as long as I am able to confirm your partner's knowledge and consent of other relationships.

I love Golden Retriever energy! Sweet, intelligent, affectionate, goofy, and protective are qualities I find highly attractive.

I require dependability and steadfastness. I appreciate someone who can plan ahead and follow through.

My goal is to develop a foundation of mutual trust, respect, and adoration. I give a lot of myself in relationships and I need that foundation to thrive.

This trust will allow you to defer to me as the guide of our relationship. It would be a partnership in which I have the final say. I will encourage and support you, and treat you with respect, care, and affection. Even when I'm feeling particularly sassy. Lol.

I recognize my need for attention. I want a partner who dotes on me and treats me like the Princess I am and finds joy in prioritizing my comfort and happiness.

Acts of service and words of affirmation are very important to me, both receiving and giving.

I am a responsive texter and appreciate the same. Part of connection for me includes daily communication. I want to have deep discussions about our experiences, aspirations, desires, and thoughts about the world.

Although it's unlikely we will see each other in person every day, I'd like to be part of your daily life. Tell me all the mundane details!

I understand that may not always be possible due to life circumstances. At the very least, I would like one convo per day, even if it's a quick hello, plus I like to send random memes and reels.

Who I am…

Despite my physical age, I'm sometimes mistaken for younger due to my personality. Speaking of physical attributes, I'm of the bbw variety, but it's not my identity. I'm 5’6 and weigh about 250lbs.

I’m intelligent, compassionate, geeky, and kinky. I've done a lot of work to understand myself (and still working), so my partner must be emotionally intelligent and willing to have difficult conversations when needed. I often need time to process big emotions and understand if you do too, as long as we come back to talk.

I love cuddling on the couch watching movies or a show (maybe you're curled up at my feet or maybe your head is in my lap). I also enjoy a night out dancing occasionally. I'm 60% introverted/40% extroverted.

I enjoy reading, but my focus waxes and wanes. Sci-fi, classic lit, contemporary fiction, biographies, and social anthropology are some of my favorite genres.

I have a creative streak that comes out sometimes through painting or even coloring. I often listen to audiobooks or music at the same time. It's one of the ways I reflect and recharge.

I'm the type to listen to music while cleaning or cooking, but don't get the idea that I do a lot of either of those. I do it for the music!

I love learning. It could be about anything. Tell me what you're currently reading or something weird and interesting that you learned.

Part of learning includes new experiences as well. That could be a new restaurant, activity, or a random adventure. I'm open to trying most things twice.

I'm not very outdoorsy, but I love a picnic! I do enjoy tent camping sometimes as I grew up doing it most summers. I could be persuaded to take easy hikes for the right person, but fair warning - I am a walking tripping hazard.

My social side loves live music, dancing, theater, bingo, baseball games, and just spending time with friends. My husband, meta, kid, and I go out for trivia from time to time. Join our team and we can hold hands under the table.

My biggest hobby though is board games. Don't ask how many I own, but do ask about my favorites and tell me yours.

The kinky part...

I prefer to discuss kinks one on one but I'll mention a few things here.

I'm not into feminization or sissification. I'm not into chastity, but a little edging and denial can be fun.

I'd like to try pegging, but it's not a requirement. I also want to explore rope play.

I'm into light bondage, impact play, anal, and fellatio.

I'm mostly into gentle femdom but I have a tiny sadistic streak.

I'm open to switching in the bedroom, but it would be on my terms.

Openness and a willingness to explore is the most important aspect of kink for me.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares some of my interests, but I also understand the need for space. It makes coming together again that much sweeter.

Thanks for taking the time to read my novel!

Disclaimer: This was written entirely using A.I. (Authentic Intelligence). Any errors are my own, I have no one else to blame.