help please!

hi im really worried im leading on this girl. i feel really guilty because ive been at irk all week and i haven’t really called or texted her until today which she called me. i think i might be aroace or demi because i don’t really get butterfly’s from her but i really really like her. i also feel no strong motivation to text her it feels like i have to do it. is this normal? our fourth date is sunday so maybe i just need to know her more? i’m really worried im messing this up since it’s my first time going on dates with a girl