Let yourself feel the negative emotions, your desires will still manifest

I often thought that to get “in the state of having it”, I wasn’t allowed to feel frustrated, angry or sad over my desire. I believed that any negative feeling I had would automatically ruin my progress and if I didn’t immediately flip those thoughts I would never get my manifestation.

For example, I’ve been applying for jobs since I recently graduated. I applied the law assuming I could get any job I wanted and I was the perfect candidate. However, whenever I want something, I tend to stress or attach a lot of emotion to it due to the difficult circumstances surrounding that desire. That stress would cause me to feel unhappy and subsequently make me think that I was not persisting enough on the idea that I could get any job I wanted.

But that’s an assumption in itself, and it wasn’t doing me any good. By me thinking that negative emotions would stop me from my manifestations was exactly what was sabotaging me.

Once I realized that, I just let myself feel everything. I
cried and expressed every frustration I had out loud, but the key was always thinking that even if the circumstances make me feel that way, I already had my desire.

A day after that, I got an email for an interview.

Remember that we’re human and having emotions is part of the human experience. Instead of shutting your feelings out, learn to embrace them and use them in your favor.

Use that anger and frustration to persist in what you want. Assume that even in doubt due to your circumstances, you still get what you want. You can even complain about it, cry, scream, but guess what? You still get your desire at the end of the day.

I know that this might not apply to everyone since we’re all different, but this definitely helped me a lot and it could probably help someone else going through something similar.