This Group Describes My Style Perfectly

Thanx for letting me join, I'm so excited I came across this group.

I am an amateur foot model currently mostly focused on streaming and creating custom content and I'm exploring more into findom. I absolutely have a sweet dominant style, I am very firm and my guys know my expectations, but I enjoy complimenting and rewarding good behavior. The guys who ask to be torn down just never really sit right with me because that's just not my style. Ill give tasks and set a certain level of expectations and there will be consequences for poor behavior, but I'm not interested in being "mean" about it. If you can't follow my expectations you are not worthy of my time and that's the bottom line, I don't enjoy "mean" humiliation to get my point across and I'm not very good at it because that's just not my forte. I've actually had guys tell me I'm not mean enough when that's what's being requested.

I also never really liked the idea of financially ruining someone for their addiction to me. Of course I want to harness that addiction and take that control and help it grow stronger, but there are healthy ways to do that without "ruining" someones life over it and that's more the style I prefer.

I think Benevolent Findom is a great way to describe my style and I never heard that before seeing it in this group.

I do have a question tho... does this category mean you don't enjoy any humiliation in your play at all? Or, for you, is there just a fine line between fun humiliation play and actually tearing someone down?

For me, I do enjoy a light level of humiliation play, it can be a common kink in my foot niche. But for me, I see a fine line between some light play and actually being mean/degrading and that's the line I don't enjoy crossing.

What is the rule for humiliation in benevolent findom, does being benevolent mean zero tolerance on any type of humiliation play?