I really don't know how to feel.. but you have to let me know

I’m 21F, and I’m currently in a relationship with my batchmate (21M), who is now my boyfriend. We’re from different departments. Back in 2nd and 3rd year, both of us were in different relationships. I broke up with my ex in July 2025, and my current boyfriend broke up with his ex around August 2025.

My breakup was really hard on me. Along with that, I also went through a friendship breakup, so emotionally that whole period was very overwhelming and honestly traumatic for me. Later, in December 2025, my current boyfriend and I started dating.

From the beginning, I was very open with him about the fact that I was not doing well emotionally or mentally because of my past breakup. I told him I was still messed up by everything, and during that time he was incredibly comforting and patient with me. He used to tell me to take things slow, make sure I was okay, check whether I had slept, text me, send snaps just to see if I had opened them — all those little things. He was genuinely very sweet.

In January and February this year, we had a lot of really cute moments together. We were both very into each other, and it genuinely felt like our vibes matched so well — from the kind of food we liked to the way we joked, teased, and talked to each other. It felt easy and natural.

We also became intimate, but after about 1–2 months, I started noticing a change in him. He began acting a little different. He doesn’t reply to my messages properly anymore. Earlier, we used to talk every day on GMeet or voice calls, but now we barely even text much, mostly because he says he’s busy.

What hurts me more is that whenever I try to bring up our romantic memories or say things like, “Do you remember that incident?” his replies are very dry — things like “aha,” “ohh nicee,” and that’s it. It makes me feel like he has lost interest in me.

I’ve noticed this same pattern around 5–6 times over the past few weeks, and it’s making me feel really bad and overthink everything. I don’t know if I’m just being too sensitive because of my past, or if he has actually changed and is losing interest in this relationship. I genuinely don’t know what to do.

I also feel like it was too soon to be in a relationship after a traumatic breakup and I feel like I made wrong decisions but I know he is working but I feel like my feelings are neglected and when I say gn when I'm angry he just tells me gn and leaves. But when we were in talking stage during the jan feb time, when I say gn he asks me whether I'm pissed or angry.. it just feels weird with his behaviour

Pls let me know