I thought I knew my husband

Maybe what hurts the most is believing you truly knew someone, only to find out they had been hiding a huge part of themselves.

I recently found out that my husband had been cheating online—not only with women, but also with men and transgender people. Reading the messages and seeing the things he watched and said left me shocked and disgusted. I never imagined him this way, and it has completely changed how I see our relationship.

He still insists that he isn't bisexual. I know no one else can define another person's sexuality, but from my perspective, it feels like he's not only lying to me, but also avoiding being honest with himself.

We're still together, but I'm struggling to process everything. I don't know how to move forward, how to rebuild trust, or even how to make sense of what happened.

Has anyone been through something similar? How did you cope? Any advice or shared experiences would really mean a lot right now.