how to keep conversations alive on dating apps?

i recently started trying out dating apps but im quite awkward/socially anxious so i tend to overthink conversations a lot.

most of the time they die off after the usual "hi how are you? -im fine, and you? -etc.", and i dont know what to ask or say to keep the conversation going.

do you have any tips to make it more natural?

Posted Jul 10, 2026, 5:56 PM UTC

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