Boyfriend Bias Fans
GG fans have this serious problem when it comes to hating one boyfriend and praising another.
Dean - Most fans seem to hate Dean the most out of the other two. The only thing he really did that is reasonable for disliking him is cheating on Lindsay. Him while intoxicated even said he missed Rory; he truly shouldn't have moved on so fast. The only time he was pushy was when he was being lied to by Rory. With Dean's sweetness towards not only Rory but Lorelai also, doing things that he didn't want to do because Rory wanted to do them, trying books out FOR her. Learning the tendencies of the Gilmore Girls, BUILDING HER A CAR! I can definitely see why people are Team Dean.
Jess - I believe most people seem to be Team Jess. Which is fine and all but they often ignore the things he's done. The first time he appears on the show he doesn't talk much, again fine, but when people ask you questions and try to understand your situation, being a complete ass is not fine. Asking someone who invited you into their home for dinner and you make assumptions of them sleeping with your uncle? Yes he's sweet to Rory (kinda) but with the fact that he goes out his way to hit on her when she's taken, stealing garden gnomes, CRASHING HER CAR, continuing to be too intimate with her when she said stop, a no playful manor stop too, then leaving her without saying a word. ASSHOLE!
Logan - He really didn't do anything wrong. He didn't really cheat because he thought they were no longer together. He had the same attitude as Tristan at first. Then as we see him more often we see that he's actually a nice guy that made Rory live a little. With all the joy he brings, treating not just Rory but the people in her circle with respect (besides swapping antiques in Emily and Richard's house that one time) I completely understand why someone would be team Logan.
If you're team Logan or team Dean I understand where you're coming from. One brings fun along with respect. Another brings Sweetness and comfortability. As for the people who are team Jess, I really want to hear why you think Jess is the best option without bashing the other two to help his case.
Posted Jul 10, 2026, 5:57 PM UTC