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edibleroach

35 [M] US East Coast / DMV area - Caring artsy-type looking for his muse

Hiya,

I'm hoping to find and make a best friend, companion, to enjoy adventures and cozy moments together, and whose presence will inspire me creatively. I'd love to play games together, go out for a date or have a cozy movie/binge night together, cook/bake tasty treats or try new menus from a restaurant around or recipes, and go on adventures and travel, all while enjoying each other's company and holding hands. But I also want someone to experience new things with and grow together, to nurture each others' ambitions and support each other individually and as a couple. I'm not looking for a fellow artist, but if you have a creative-side, I bet we'd get along well!

About Me: I'm a rare INFJ / Enneagram Type-2 personality (yeah yeah, it might be dated and faux-whatever, but still kinda summarizes me pretty well) Basically I'm laid back and easy-going, very caring and compassionate, sincere and sensitive, affectionate, and I consider myself a romantic; I can be silly but always dependable. Intuitive, kind, I'm a great conversationalist and a good listener. Tall and muscular with a little extra (work out regularly, I do my best to take care of myself).
I'm an artist and photographer. I love to cook, especially for others! Have some standard Asian traits like I play the piano, martial arts -- my math might be a little rusty. I enjoy film, animation, definitely more of a city boy who enjoys leisurely long walks exploring a city. Into geeky things such as: comics, some manga/anime, casual gaming, and attend conventions would like to go to them more often.
I should note, I do not want children in the future and am not looking to be a father figure if you have kid(s) of your own.

Who I'm looking for (You) : 28~42 years old, single (not into open/poly situations), hwp and physically active and cares about their health (so we can encourage and support each other) but enjoys indulging in a sweet or savory treat every now and then! No drugs or smoking.
Someone communicative, affectionate and kind to others, emotionally mature, patient and understanding, and able to talk about the big things. Passionate and has their own personal goals and ambitions; Open to trying new things with a bit of an adventurous spirit would be awesome.
Big plus if you also have a creative side, are a cat person, or are a little nerdy like me!

Send me a message and tell me what sort of things you're into, like something you're looking forward to, include what your favorite boba flavor is or dessert, and a bit about yourself.

Let's chat and get to know each other!

Posted Jul 10, 2026, 5:58 PM UTC

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