How to not be innocent/damdoma

I posted a post yesterday about how i attracted the type of girls who used me as a "(la3ib i7iyat" ta yraj3o m3a exes dialhom. Here's the post

And i actually find out that my innocence and lack of experience hiya lima5altnich nchof patterns bzrba.

So i actually want some pieces of advice bach manti7ch fnafs lfa5 miraran wa tikraran and notice things earlier so i can cut off.

Ngl bdaw kitbdlo liya lmo3ta9adat diali about "genuine connections" i see mnin jabo l guys dik l3a9liya dial "hit it and quit it", but i won't fall for it, I still have hope.