loser question but how do you deal with being a bit unattractive as a woman

okay enough the loser questions on the subs i get it but i am curious about this; i wouldn’t say i’m ugly at all, i’m in fact a cute mid if i get made up. but some things you can’t change, like a small cup size or narrow hips or a small derrière. i have a health issue keeping me from going to the gym right now and this got me thinking that so much of female sexuality & sensual experience is wrapped up in having these physical markers of femininity that are socially perceived and if you don’t have then….how do you identify with your sexuality? with the social female experience? i feel like i struggle with feeling sexually attractive & seeing other people because of this, it almost makes me feel asexual. any thoughts from women who struggled with similar issues before?