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Torontoboy37

38M4M #Central Downtown Toronto - Build a real but dl secret Dad/Son or Big Bro/Little Bro fwb relationship

NSFWM4M

Hey guys,

There probably isn't an ideal place to post this but wanted to give it a try.

38M here. I'm 5'10 180lbs gl brown dude. Based in downtown Toronto. I'm married so being safe and staying clean is paramount. No one knows i'm bi.

Looking for a local guy in a similar situation.

I have always enjoyed big bro/little bro and dad/son roleplay and think it would be hot and nice to build a real life version of it. I want to be the younger brother or son and I want to do this with someone who actually wants to have a little brother or son because I know that if the relationship feels real for us it will be that much more enjoyable and hot/intense when we are physical.

What i'm looking for is unique because i'm not looking for a one time thing or a hookup. I want to find someone who is ideally older than me and bigger/taller than me who wants to build what would be a real big/bro little/bro or dad/son relationship where we love and care about each other for real as brothers or as father and son.

Our relationship would have to be a secret to the world but we would know it's real for the two of us.

Since I am married and also have a demanding work schedule, although we could build a real and beautiful thing, I need someone who would be okay with our relationship comprising of mostly virtual emails/messages and when we get to see each other in person which would realistically be for 15-30mins for coffee or alone time as much as we can.

If you reach out i'd appreciate you direct messaging me and please tell me about you and your interest in having a real life son or little brother. Please share your age, height, weight, your situation and what you are looking for. Serious only. And be nice :)

Race doesn't matter to me.

What will always matter the most is the way you communicate with me when we chat virtually and the way you behave in person. Our lives and schedules may not always give us the opportunity to have as much time as we want to have together so it's important to me that we always make the most of the time we have.

Maybe one day i'll find you and if I do, I know it's going to be super special.

Signed,

Your future son or little brother

Posted Jul 10, 2026, 6:00 PM UTC

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