Worse thing ex did that you forgave?

For me, it’s probably when she ghosted me 20+ days, including my birthday, because she was “healing” and I actually believed her due to the childhood trauma she went through. Or when I drove 2 hours for her graduation, she insisted I get a hotel after her graduation dinner she invited me to, and she never showed up. I sat alone in a hotel room all night, surrounded by gifts for her…