36 [M4F] #NYC Friday… Again!?
Hola! Hello! Bonjour! Happy Friday :) I am probably a cliche: a married man who is in a good marriage in a friendship kind of way, but feeling unfulfilled in the monogamy of it all and all that entails, and looking to fulfill needs and desires in places where I probably shouldn’t. Typical, I know, I know.
My physical attributes:
6’ tall, muscular/fit, light skin, brown eyes, short dark hair, short beard, ≈ 200 lbs, and I do not have any attributes that resemble a goblin of any known variety. Which, I’ve heard goblin attributes are not in vogue these days. Lucky me!
What I am looking for:
An AP relationship that is low pressure and fun, where we communicate often, and spend time together in person when we are able. I am looking to be friends and lovers, but we can take things slow and see how we connect.
Why you might be interested in me as an AP:
I’m handsome (though you’ll have to judge yourself). I am a great conversation partner. I will make you laugh. I am knowledgeable about a lot of things and can talk about a lot of things. I have big biceps 💪🏻. I am an artist. I am a musician. I’m good with my hands. I like to please (you can use your imagination 😏). Im a great kisser. I’m communicative about what I want. I am well traveled. I teach college classes for fun (and a small amount of money). I have a car. I like almost all genres of music. I’m active. I love great food of all kinds. I have good hygiene. I’m very curious about you. I have realistic expectations. I have done this before. I will do everything in my ability to not treat you like a ‘side piece’ (even if that is the nature of this game).
Who I am looking for:
You are a woman who has decided to go down this path and is looking for an AP yourself. It’s ok if you’re new to this or experienced. You’re 30-40 ish and live within a few hours of the NYC metro area. You are active and take care of yourself. You do not have goblin attributes (sorry 😢).
Posted Jul 10, 2026, 6:01 PM UTC