Yellow flags on first date
I went out with a girl, super cute and there was definitely a vibe. We ended up talking all night, playing pool, and grabbing a bite.
However… there were some yellow flags:
1- she said she would drive and drink when she lived in LA (when going out)
2- she made a racist remark saying she didn’t understand how POC could afford to live in a luxury building (she did catch herself and say that wasn’t politically correct and I was like yeah that was a racist opinion)
3- she drank 3 beers while I didn’t drink at all…. And was pretty tipsy at the end of the date. She did ask if that was ok to drink at the beg of the date and I said yes
I know this makes her sound horrible but we did have a vibe on this date. I feel like so rarely so I meet someone and actually feel a spark. Should I proceed with caution? Run far away? Help.
Posted Jul 10, 2026, 6:01 PM UTC