Scared to ask friend to join his lab.. š
Soooo, basically I have a friend who works as a neuroscience research coordinator at this hospital. Me and him used to work at Starbucks together and often did solo closes with just the two of us, so we got really close and still continue to chat after we both quit.
Hereās the problem: Iām an incoming sophomore who snagged herself an MA job, shadowing, and, thanks to this friend, a reference so I can start volunteering at a hospital. The only thing I need besides my MCAT and leadership is research. Iām planning on taking a workshop at my local cc over winter break thatāll teach me the basic of working in research, but Iām scared to ask him if I can help out in his lab or if he can find me a lab in the hospital thatās willing to accept students.
I personally donāt like asking friends for favors. It just makes things weird. PLUSSS, I just asked him for a reference, and he was so nice about it and responded quickly. I donāt want to make him feel like Iām using him.
Should I just leave it at the reference, or thug it out and ask?
Posted Jul 10, 2026, 6:01 PM UTC