Ldr talking stage with a longtime friend. 22m 22f

Im planning to have a talk with her because somw things bother me/make me overthink.

1. Since my confession a month ago where she said she felt the same nothing changed at all between us. No behaviour change at all, 0 flirting etc. Which just feels weird. I told myself its fine and we need to get used to the change in dynamic but it feels like a huge uncertainty that is killing me so i need to adress it in a way.

2. I talked to her about the next meet up. She said early august thats ok. But i wanna plan it asap an lock it in. And since that talk which was 2 weeks ago i think it hasnt been mentioned once by both me an her to be fair.

It does feel like theres something really wrong and that everything is fine and we are both just shy in a way. Because we do still text and talk daily.

I had planned to wait until that visit to act more like we are dating because it feels weird online. But didnt feel weird at all in person