don’t know if it’s a break up or silent treatment (18)

Got into a big fight and she hasn’t texted me in months. I moved on, and took it as a breakup. but I imagine her coming back. why would she come back tho after months? And I tried the whole paragraphs thing I tried a lot none of that gave her motivation to reach out

also at first i took the silence as disrespect but then decided there’s no reason to label it or take it that way because people choose silence for many reasons. and at the same time months of silence like no word at all tho??

let me know guys. i’ve dated her since 7th grade.

has anyone been through something similar