4 Weeks Post Zero Depth Vaginoplasty

Hello everyone! As the title says I’m now about 4 weeks out from my operation and while it’s mostly exciting I’ve been feeling some anxiety growing in my chest and wanted to get the thoughts of some other girlies.

For a long time I felt that sex wasn’t really that important to me so that if there was a complication it would be fine but I’m starting to realize it matters to me a lot. So far there’s been no issues and I’ve started to experiment with a vibrator but I don’t really feel a ton yet. I know that it’s early and the nerves are regrowing but I’m just anxious.

This most sucks with my girlfriend who I love and adore. She’s been pretty needy and while I love pleasuring her it’s made me feel a little left out. I know I’m probably just worrying too much especially since it’s only been 4 weeks but it’d be nice to maybe hear some experiences from other girls who have been through this!

I’m happy with my choice of zero depth because I feel full depth is just too imperfect a surgery right now but I’ve heard a lot of people say it’s just doing things “half way” which feels kind of bad. I know that for a long time I’ve felt zero depth is the right choice for me given it’s fewer complications and upkeep but other people have sort of gotten in my head while I’ve been in a vulnerable state of mind.

Not entirely sure what I’m looking to hear but if you have questions for me or experiences to share it’d be meaningful.