Moving on... Sucks

We talk about the grief here, but I want to address the inevitable part... having to move on and keep living. Letting go of the life you had and rebuilding is so hard. I find myself holding on to things simply because he and I bought it or that was something I used when he was still here. Letting go is hard, painful and seems impossible. It gets me shaking and sobbing but in the end it is better that I let it go. My life with him is gone and I can't get that back, I have to rebuild and let myself live... it is so very hard.

How are you handling it?