Not even getting a chance to talk

And if i not get a chance to even talk how will someone get to know me? My looks are not that good but atleast one can talk and decide, not even getting a chance, I'm very kind hearted person, i don't know that is valued or not nowadays. I don't know what to do, my age is increasing and i tried on online matri apps, relatives and all route is not much possible because they also used apps only.