genuinely asking, why are some people here mad that they never get in relationships??

like i understand love seems good but at the same time, lots of us wont want to date each other and not be attracted due to looking "ugly" (i put it in quotation marks because ive never seen an actual ugly person here). so why is it that some of us expect and demand people to love us romantically when hypocritically we most likely wont look at ourselves either