GIFTs

venting/ranting

Please HELP!

I have tons of gifts my ex gave me during our friendship/ relationship. Ranging from colognes to hair clippers and stuff in between. Long story short she let her friends get in between our relationship and was living a double life for almost two years.

When she left, I felt betrayed. She still hangs out with these people and I got discarded like I didn’t matter.

I want to pack all the gifts up and send them back neatly in a box. With a letter.

Has anyone ever done this ? Returned gifts or had anyone return you the gifts you gave them ..

Is it a bad idea. Or what is the short and long term effect ? I really liked the items I use them . But I can always buy them . Seeing them in my house hurts me because they represent love mixed with betrayal.

And I want her to know how much she hurt me. While she’s out there living her life.

Posted Jul 10, 2026, 7:31 PM UTC

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