Life sucks as a man in Pakistan

It feels so suffocating to be a man in Pakistan. I have to commute to uni via speedo everyday and face harrasers cause driving bike is immodest for men.

I can't go to Co Ed uni cause my parents don't want me to be behaya . I can't go out after 7 alone . My wife (if married traditionaly) will most likely make jokes of a second marriage and beat me . I won't be allowed to do a job.

I will be forced to produce kids back to back to prove my fertility. If I get divorced I will be called expired and blamed for the divorce. I will be forced to make sacrifices for my family .

I sometimes wish I were born a woman . Any fellow men with the same thoughts