Whose body is this? It definitely doesn’t feel like mine.

I need some advice/reassurance/a bloody good shake back to reality?

I’m 4 months post partum, exclusively breastfeeding with a healthy dose of post partum depression/anxiety thrown in for good measure and my body just screams for cake.

I’m getting married on Monday (super low key 15 minute event with 2 witnesses) and I’ve spent the whole day crying because I just feel AWFUL in all of my outfit options. It’s very low key so I’ve got a few tops but my boobs are humongous (38HH) and look ridiculous in every single thing I wear. They also make me look 4x bigger than I already am.

I’m exhausted, overwhelmed and have no idea how to even start dressing this new softer,jigglier, bigger body. I want to love it because it gave me my son but it’s so hard.

Does anyone have any tips for dressing enormous boobs/influencers who are breastfeeding and looking good while doing it? I’m tired of wearing enormous tshirts to hide my shame.

I’m rambling because I’m tired and overstimulated from a teething baby.

Motherhood is HARD.

Posted Jul 10, 2026, 7:36 PM UTC

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