Ano thoughts niyo sa mga girls na nagkakagusto (may romantic attachment) sa bakla?

Hi! Asking for advice lang po since one year ko ng crush yung gay coworker ko. He’s really kind, smart, and gentle! We’re also friends, and we often gossips about work chismis and even our personal lives. It’s just that my attachment to him is hindi na normal. Kumbaga para na akong si Olivia Rodrigo sa album niya na “you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love”. At first, it was just a harmless crush, supposed to be admiration lang, but naging close talaga kami kaya lumala attachment ko sa kanya. So any tips po on how to lessen my attachment on him and eye opening advice para mag sink in sa akin na never niya ako magiging preference? (he’s a Gay man po) Thank you so much po sa lahat ng sasagot! Sana mag ka salary increase kayo : D