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BenHogan1971

55 [M4F] #New York City - Charming Dad lacks witty title, but yearns for female banter specialist/LTR partner in EST.

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What's your favorite quote? Mine is along the lines of "better to keep one's mouth closed and be thought a fool, than to open it and remove all doubt." And yet, here I am blathering with my mouth open, to millions of internet strangers! Anyway, do not label me a fool.....and do you have book recs?

Have posted here before, but the gist of it is that I'm a single Dad in the big city, searching for someone to survive these next two dreadful Trump years and beyond. The end.

Charming, articulate, witty, engaging, ever curious, a great kisser, an optimistic romantic, and haven't had a car since 2011. (I also don't have a TV and love parentheses.) I'm 5-9 and 185 with a classic "Dad bod" that I sometimes push with running, golf and pickelball, and I love all athletic and physical pursuits. I once taught golf for a living, but left that business many years ago. I journal and read, and I've lately been obsessed with Phish, but I mostly love rock and hard rock, podcasts such as "Smartless," and "Pod Save America" and all the documentaries Netflix can churn out.

Hoping you share many of the same qualities, and a photo would be a wonderful way to start. I am happy to share one back right away. Overall, I just ask that you are between 30-60, (mostly) fit and trim, enjoys outdoor activities/physical fitness, has the ability to throw it back and forth in conversation, and remains open-hearted on love.

Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:25 PM UTC

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