So I posted this in another sub and didn't get any proper answer.

Good things take time, and it's okay to wait. But the thing is, when we are waiting for a particular thing to happen and it takes ages but in reality it couldn't be a few months, why do we not feel the same about it anymore?

Happens right?

Like we wanted it so bad but then all of a sudden the spark of it is just lost.

Or in another case we start losing hope so much that it feels numb.

Patience is not for the weak yk.

And of course, the best we can do is to just pray and put all the trust in Allah because after all he knows the best.