36 [M4F] South London / South Coast. Seeking a submissive gal with a dark streak and a vanilla side.

Howdy. To be clear from the outset I find the most important thing in a dynamic is the duality of kink. One part needs to be the vanilla stuff such as trips to the garden centre (because I am secretly an old man) and the other part needs to be something much more.... darker. This rules out a 24/7 or true TPE dynamic.

I am looking for someone who is prepared to be a truly submissive partner. One who rewards my dominance with total trust and submission. Someone who, when we arrive home from the above mentioned garden centre, hears the door shut and lock behind them and then, in anxious anticipation you wonder if my hand will wrap around your throat...

The menu of kinks that I like to dine upon are: Impact play, rough sex (slapping, spanking, hair pulling etc,) restraint, praise / degradation and little rituals that make a dynamic feel personal. There are more but lists are boring.

I am white, 5'11, with short shaved hair and a medium length beard. I am athletic and generally quite outgoing. I am very much an outdoor person and a very passionate home cook. Currently I have started a pasta making course and it has been exceptionally good fun.

Please do drop a message if you think there is some compatibility here and we can explore further. Perhaps in your first message you could let me know your favourite type of pasta.