dream confirmation about SP

I had a good dream confirmation about my SP, who is currently with a 3P (3rd party) (after she and I had a fight). Honestly before I got into manifesting SP, I'd feel totally hopeless if she was with a 3P. But she has left like so many guys to get back together with me, since we've known each other and been on and off. And she's never chosen a 3P over me unless we had some kind of fight, whereas she has left other guys for me without a fight between them. And hearing that a 3P is not a big threat, it's just a 3P, really helped.

Anyway to confirm this I had a dream where I had a 3P. She was a pretty girl with dark hair, and there was a song on in the room about being synchronized. Kind of a romantic song. Then we both went to reach for something and stopped because our hands would have bumped. Then we both pretended to "accidentally" bump hands anyway, and I held her hand. I looked at her, and knew she wasn't the one. It was nice to hold hands, sure, but I knew she wasn't the one and I wouldn't want to lead her on.

That reminded me of how a 3P must feel for my SP. Sure, certain things might feel nice, but deep down, she knows that 3P is not the one.

One of the biggest blocks I have had with my SP has been being mad at her for going to 3P's. In our last go around, I said I need a commitment, and she gave it to me. I got much clearer on how important I am to her, and so I felt confident in creating those boundaries. But the fear based control I was falling into was having a bad effect on her, and it led to a fight. If I had known what I know now, that no 3P can ever threaten our divine union, I'd have responded to that situation so differently. After the fight, I felt so hopeless and devastated, but then Source led me to this subreddit and Kim from Core Union, which has given me the tools to not be phased by my SP's contact with 3P's. I never even knew that was possible. So clearly Source is supporting me in this soul union. Also SP gave me a new place to live, where my SP is starting school.

That goes to show I am her SP too. Because before we fought, I was gonna move there with her. Then after the fight I canceled my move. I think she felt she'd never see me again. I think her will to be with me also manifested my moving there. So she wants me as much as I want her.

I've also been afraid, with her other 3P in that town, and with her being busy/meeting new people at school, she'd forget about me. But this SP stuff is showing me I can keep my vibration up and manifest the relationship she and I both truly desire, even if she's in school or has a former 3P in town.