24 [F4F] thanks to this subreddit coz I learned a lot

hi, gays and everything in between!

I met three amazing women here who changed my life in a good way. I started scrolling here around March of 2024 during my i’m-looking-for-someone-coz-i-got-dumped-by-my-long-term-relationship phase and I found this girl (girl 1).

Girl 1 was the woman who made me realize a lot of things. She was the first one that I took seriously here but she had other plans and decided to ditch me on one of the important dates of my life. I guess this one taught me the importance of communication coz apparently the reason she ditched me was she was talking to this girl also here in reddit and found out months later after we decided to part ways (if ure asking ano bang label namin? well we decided to take things seriously kasi we used to like each other) it took me 3 months to move forward (bawal mahina loob dito sa reddit believe me)

Girl 2 was the girl of my dreams. Like she’s really my type, but that being said ang hirap naman kasi gibain ng great wall of China 😂 We clicked, it started with a random phone call, then things went serious and she asked me if I want to be her girlfriend. I said yes. Girl, you’re 15/10 bakit hindi ako mag yes? Hahaha! things were great not until it was time for me to fulfill my dreams and take the path that I love. it went a full 360 because idk, she didn’t move a muscle kasi siya raw ‘yong hinahabol. then that’s it I’m done. not until may months na andami kong what ifs and lagi rin siyang nag paparamdam. we tried again but still the same. so I decided na I’m done. Learned a lot from her tho. Thanks for teaching me to drop the good things for me to have the best things in life. I hope you find someone you deserve :)

and this girl no. 3, aka my future wife, the unexpected girl. we started in the most unexpected way. ang dami nating pinag daanan and all I can say is my heart’s happy with you. thanks to girl 2 for not treating me right coz if u did treat me right edi sana wala akong aasawahin now. Hahaha! I’m happy that I get to experience life with you, weather any storm with you, and most importantly tell to the whole world that you are mine. Truly you’re the best thing that’s ever been mine :))

thank you, reddit, for the rollercoaster ride! and thank y’all for the lesson you’ve taught me. to anyone who’s trying to find their soulmates here, konting tiyaga and mag ready ng pang therapy coz girls here are different. really different. you just need to find your needle in this haystack :P das all folks!

ps sorry if there’s some grammatical errors hehe peace out