Am I overreacting?

Idk if it’s me as a “cancer” but am IOR? It was my birthday yesterday.. I’m in my 30s now and I NEVER get birthday messages unless I make a post or something about it being my birthday. I remember everyone’s birthday and I’ll send a text with a cute emoji or something, if they are close friends or family, I always get a small gift for them or whatever. Nobody ever remembers mine.. I’ll get a happy late birthday days later if that. I tried to plan a dinner for the weekend so people won’t be working and able to come. I got messages saying oh but it’s fight night and can we do that instead? Everyone thinks I’m too sensitive and whatever.. I just wanted to do a nice little dinner and not have to eat some bar type food.. idk I’m just sad about it and don’t want to do anything now.. Am I overreacting or should I just go with what they want to do??

TLDR: everyone forgets my birthday and idk if I’m just emotional or what to do 😭