Stop Chasing, Start Creating: How to Stay in Your New State
This is a manifesting tip from coach Ani.
In this video, Ani shares some powerful insights on manifestation, specifically focusing on thought transmission and maintaining your "new state." Here are the key takeaways:
- Thought Transmission is Real: Ani explains that thought transmission is essentially having an internal conversation or setting an intention, then detaching. The "grip of death"—where you obsessively want something because you are in a state of lack—creates resistance. If you can stay neutral and allow the thought to exist without chasing it, it often shows up surprisingly fast.
- The "Hot and Cold" Phase: When you start seeing movement, it’s normal for some "old stuff" to surface. Ani uses a great analogy: it’s like when you delete a file on your computer and it asks, "Are you sure you want to delete this forever?" Don't fear when old traumas or negative patterns pop up; it’s just your subconscious asking for confirmation that you’re truly done with that version of yourself.
- Reactor vs. Creator: This is the most critical distinction. A reactor looks at current 3D circumstances and reacts (leading to a ripple effect that keeps them stuck in lack). A creator steps back, regulates their nervous system, and refuses to let the 3D dictate their state of mind. They know their reality will naturally reflect their internal identity.
- Self-Concept Trumps Everything: Ani notes that many people get "Everyone Is You Pushed Out" (EIYPO) wrong. It’s not about manipulating others to say specific things by repeating affirmations; it’s about your internal identity. If you are a people-pleaser, you will only manifest people who don't prioritize you. When you work on your own self-concept, you don't have to worry about what to affirm—the outer world naturally aligns with who you have become.
- The "New Identity" Test: Ani suggests asking yourself daily: "How does the version of me who already has this show up? What are their morning/afternoon/evening habits? What do they avoid, and what do they entertain?" By showing up as that version of yourself, the old man (your old habits and fears) dies, and your new reality resurrects.
Bottom line: Stop "doing" manifestation from a place of anxiety. Ground yourself, calm your nervous system, and stop giving the 3D world power over your inner peace. The desire will come to you when you stop chasing it.
TL;DR: Stop reacting to your 3D reality, regulate your nervous system, and stop putting your desires on a pedestal. Manifestation is about becoming the "creator" version of yourself—not the "reactor" who waits for external signs to feel okay. When old patterns pop up, view them as your subconscious asking, "Are you sure you want to delete this?"—just confirm you’re done with it and move forward.
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Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:36 PM UTC