I feel like most women only like the “top 20%” of guys.

I’m 28. I tried getting away from the RP but it seems like most of women I know whether it’s at work or when I’m out and about are dating men who are good looking or financially successful (six figures).

I’m black and Indian. I make an average salary. I’m balding and I pretty shave my head. I don’t have a charismatic personality to make up for my looks. Most women seem to like white dudes. There’s not many black women in my city.

I thought I would be able to get over the redpill thoughts from my early to mid 20s but they’re still there. I also get envious when I a halfway decent looking women gets messages from dudes whether it’s social media or online dating.

Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:36 PM UTC

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