21 [M4F] Online - Looking for my one and only soulmate for a togetherness that never fades away
The title might sound a bit weird, sorry about that ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ I got nervous SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous while preparing this post because I feel like I wrote things that might sound weird, but I just poured my whole heart out (and I am actually writing this part last).
​I'm not sure if posting here will work, but I guess it doesn't hurt to try. Anyway, I should probably talk a bit about myself. Also, please keep in mind that my English isn't the best, so there are parts where I get a little help with it!
​I'm 21 years old. I like video games, watching shows, walking in nature, stargazing, looking at the moon, and reading manga. I'm just keeping this brief to give you a basic idea. If someone really wants to get to know me, we'll end up talking about everything deeply anyway. If you're not that kind of person, I'm probably not the right guy for you.
​From my past experiences, I realized I really can't stand a lack of communication. I don't want an initial "talking stage" that slowly fades away. I want our whole life to feel like that. I want us to prioritize each other above everything. Maybe it sounds obsessive or too much to some, but I want us to be everything to each other. Talking for hours, watching movies, playing games, or just walking and talking, or hugging for minutes straight, not thinking about anyone else... It might sound weird to some, but the person I want to talk to isn't "some people". Also, if you don't like physical touch, I'm not the right fit for you.
​(Writing like this feels like a job interview, ugh, let me talk about different things...)
​If you consider messaging me, please don't just send a short, dry message. And please, no sexual messages. I don't want to do things like that with someone I'm not in love with, and I don't trust people easily, so please don't ask for that.
​Some of my dealbreakers/red flags:
​People who want open relationships or have their eyes elsewhere.
​Smokers (It's not a huge deal, but I'd prefer if you didn't).
​Drug users.
​People who can't tolerate talking a lot (I wrote this because I want to talk a lot, I want it to feel like our lives are completely shared).
​To me, love and a real relationship mean that if you hear a song you like, you immediately want to share it with them. If you see a cool car, you send them a picture. If a random thought crosses your mind, you tell them. Or if they are busy, you check in and ask when they'll be done. It means putting the other person above everything else. I am exactly that kind of person, and when I'm the only one putting in that effort, it gets really exhausting and makes me feel unvalued.
​I COMPLETELY FORGOT THE PHYSICAL APPEARANCE PART Okay, if this is important to you (and I do believe physical attraction is real), we can share photos later in DMs. My physical traits: I am 6'0"/183 cm and weigh 180 lbs/82 kg. I don't have a muscular body. I dont know my skin tone but i think its fair light . I have brown hair, dark brown eyes, and I wear glasses(because im blindðŸ˜ðŸ˜)
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And please dont text just hi or something tell me about yourself please
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I just read this back and it sounds kind of silly, but I'm too lazy to edit it, so sorry about that.
Posted Jul 11, 2026, 1:37 PM UTC