yes I admit I shouldn't have not ghosted and just told them dudes I wasn't interested in them

but it's not fair to say I ruined their lives when we only had like two outings per dude so I ended it before we went months and months and months which would really have messed them up if they was really interested in me and I said I'm not feeling them like that... I just said I'm open for friends but I felt they wanted more and it made me feel uncomfortable... they approached me at work at a time when I really wasn't looking for friends or a boo.. so I guess when they get ghosted while on a dating app they will blame those broads too for their miserable lives I guess because they didn't know me like I didn't know them.. but yes I was wrong not telling them I didn't want to see them anymore but y'all making a big deal out of this and blowing it up to the max for someone who don't even know these dudes... we don't know each other so how did I make your life miserable?