In need of trading advice 🙁🙁

Hello! I'm new to the subreddit and I've been seeing a lot of people say that trading is one of the best ways to get diamonds in general besides farming. And as someone with really bad social anxiety, I can't tell you how much I used to hate trading with a burning passion. Don't get me wrong, I love talking to people.... Just ones I know won't attack me for posting about being Harry's d1 hater on Animal Crossing... ANYWAY, Since the trading hub came out in 2020, I've refused to trade until a year later when I wanted to sell my unwanted items and save for the GoT parasol. But thanks to the lovely item limit back then, I could not give my whole inventory in one piece for a 4000 robux parasol.

So, if you took a WILD guess as to what happened, I got scammed of majority of my items and quit trading. I quit Royale High altogether for a few months, realized I needed princess treatment in my life, and came back. A little over a year later, I actually got the damn thing while I was in the trading hub with a friend, and it was NOT easy giving up my whole inventory + 35,000 loose diamonds for that precious parasol... (i waited 3 months for it to be low demand, it was 500k at the time)

SO, now you hear my story. You feel my burning hatred for scammers and you've listened to my dark emo past. I need genuine help getting back into trading, I am too chicken to get back into it, but it's one of the only ways to get the toy items i want because there hasn't been any sight of my shawty babe avrilla on amazon since december. matter of fact, she's been taken off their official amazon page as a whole. resellers are wanting $180 for the code and i don't think i have code money, but that's just a hunch of mine 💔💔

if there's ANY kind of advice you could spare, that would be absolutely magnificent and i would love to have the confidence to start selling a leg or two that i can live without by the time i wake up 🙏 im actively shaking while trying to muster up the courage to even post this so spare me a minute before i see your reply if this blows up 😓