For young INTJs who let Fi destroy their life

In Jungian terms, Ni is your overused strength, and Te is your underused strength.

Fi is your overused weakness, and Se is your underused weakness.

Ni cant focus in on more than one function at once, meaning that the moment you’re using Fi, Te is completely blinded. It is important that you are finding balance in how much you spend time introspecting rather than acting.

Since Ni is the function you’re using to navigate through life as a human being, it should be corresponding less with Fi, and more with Te—else, it will undeniably ruin your life for the reason that it is not your auxiliary function, and Te is.

Your goal should never be to neglect Fi, as it is exceptionally important for us, but to balance it out with Se, and likewise balance out Ni with Te.

If you’re an INTJ, and are currently in rough phase of life, be honest with yourself:
How much is Fi taking Te’s place, to the point you lay in bed everyday paralyzed in plan refinement, self-analysis looping, day-dreaming, emotional turbulence, but never daring to execute to your vision in response to the present moment?

From my experience, this can consequently result in severe memory issues, in addition to many other emotional hurdles.